Well, I finally had an entire day to myself yesterday and it was great (no offense to the kids) I spent half the day at the Biltmore Spa (thank you Sergio!!) which was interesting as I've never been rubbed all over by another woman with lavender oil....seriously, I asked her if she was married..no really, it was a VERY relaxing massage and I was feeling all Zen until she started massaging my scalp with those oily hands, and no matter how much I shampooed my hair in the locker room, it still looked greasy, but at least I smelled good! That was followed by a facial, then a mango manicure and pedicure and it was well worth the money my poor baby had to dish out for me. See, I make him jump out of planes, and he has me rubbed down, it all evens out in it's odd little way....So now the big debate is back: do we stay in Miami (no show of hands) or do we go back to NC or MN????? I don't know if I can do the frigid cold again of Minneapolis, even though I'd go because it's a great oppt. for hubby, or do we go back to NC were the accent is a soft drawl that wraps around you like an old comfy blanket (wether you want it to or not) and where my real estate agent used to walk around town with his mint julep (so southern) to the neighborhood gatherings and his open houses? if anyone can give me a damn good reason to say in Miami, where it's every man for himself and thank you is a word missing from most people's language ( and no, the family & friends being here argument does not work ) someone please enlighten me......I'd appreciate it!! sometimes we need to see things from a different point of view and right now, my vision is still a little cross-eyed from all that pampering......